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Mind talk is of little us Ilya ... and a psychologist doesn't heal the person .. the person heals them selves .. the psychologist just plays the part of a healthy mom or dad that they never had as a child. This is why it is vital that the healer - therapist .. never has sex with their clients .. it just replicates the damage, the disease, the injury of their childhood ... and drives it deeper into the Defense Structure. An addicts is constantly running away from the pain of being sick as well as the pain of getting better. To an addict .. Love .. is a pain .. to be avoided. Monsters do not cry .. and though they are 180 degrees the other way of their sick mom and dad monster who did not cry .. they are just like them and usually bury the monster down deep inside to become cancer or some other illness.
Once the bitter salty tears are out in the healing of the Broken Heart .. and they become Whole Hearted .. then the light sweet tears of happiness and joy will be created by the Defense Structure. Easy to do but no one wants to do it.
sumbuddie wear blind sea