Loving yourself vs. loving another
Ilya Shambat <[email protected]>
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There are some people who believe that you need to love yourself before you can love another. In fact it works the opposite way. You love other people for traits that you find lovable. Seeing these traits expressed by another person, you know what traits you need to develop in order to be lovable in your own eyes.