Loving Yourself And Loving Another

Ilya Shambat <[email protected]> Wed, 17 Aug 2022 19:08:00 -0700 (PDT)
Newsgroups alt.abuse.recovery
Message-ID <[email protected]>
Some people claim that you need to love yourself before you can love another. This is completely wrong. It works the other way around. You love people for traits you find lovable. Seeing these traits expressed successfully by another person, you know what you need to work on within yourself in order to be lovable in your own eyes.