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 Before I start, I don't care what you identify as so as long as you aren't hurting others in the process.
I recently met a transwoman at work and honestly, I wish I didn't. Not her, at least. She is the first trans woman I've interacted with on this level as most I meet are usually customers. On the surface, they're absolute sweethearts so I thought nothing of it until I started to (forcibly) hang around her. Let's call her Amy.
She transitioned months before and because of this, she thought it was okay to force herself into a mostly female circle during lunch hours. When I say force, I mean she shoehorned her way in without asking or getting to know anyone in the group first. I remember leaving the Subway near where I work one day and she just rushed up to me with no respect for personal space and started to run her mouth. People who know me know I get really uncomfortable when people I don't know do this. I'm an extreme introvert and I try to avoid others as much as possible. If it weren't for another female coworker who walked up and started chatting with her as if she knew Amy, I would have run in the other direction. I later found out the coworker barely knew Amy as well.
Amy was nice when I first met her but when she started to sit with me and a couple of other girls at lunch, I started to notice some things that I wasn't really comfortable with.
First, Amy would interrupt any conversation to turn it on her and ask us various questions about products that she used and some questions that made the rest of the group glance at each other like "WTF". Personal stuff. Like, did her boobs look real, what did we think of her hair, etc, etc. Stuff that wouldn't be brought up in the middle of the conversation. It didn't seem to matter what we said, she seemed to be fishing for compliments.
Then, she started lamenting about not having a period any time she found out someone in the group had theirs and was getting asked if they needed anything, pads, tampons, ibuprofen, etc. And she wouldn't stop. When told that she would not like having one since all of us seriously wish we didn't have ours, we got chided over it. Absolutely no sympathy or empathy is shown. She was more upset that she couldn't have one of her own and didn't care about anything or anyone else.
That wasn't the only issue I've had with her. I could overlook that. No, red flags started to arise when Amy saw something while I was on a skype call with my best friends. One of my best friends happens to be trans and has the flag as the background to one of their icons. They're female to masculine/non-binary (They/He) who has had a mastectomy years ago. Let's call them M.
Immediately Amy started to ask questions and I gave her some information about my friend. I didn't go too personal as some questions had to be answered by them, but Amy didn't seem to respect that. She wanted to know EVERYTHING about them. When I let it slip that my friend was coming to live with me as a roommate, Amy insisted on meeting them. I shrugged and let her know if M wanted to hang out, they'd let her know once they were down here.
That's when she started to approach me every day to ask me about my friend, still pushing for info and now pressuring me to give her M's skype details and how to get ahold of them. I flat out told her no because M is more introverted than I am. They don't talk to people they don't know and they shut down anytime someone forces them to be around instead of grinning and bearing it as I do. M is extremely sheltered, has been suicidal in the past, and I already knew they would not be able to handle Amy. When I told her about this, she scoffed, said M should just "Get over it" cuz it was "weird" and proceeded to push more for the contact information. Amy proceeded to tell me she was an introvert to, something I think she did not know the definition of as she acted the complete opposite. I told her no again and that it was not my place to give out that information. She wasn't happy about that and kept going on and on about it, not taking no for an answer. When I finally got her to back off, I started to avoid her. I did not want M to be exposed to someone like this, regardless if they were trans or not.
To try to get me to talk about M more when she did catch up with me, Amy kept bringing up transitioning and how she knew a doctor/therapist in the area that could help M. From her demeanor when she said this, it was as if she was trying to 'save' M from themselves and push the idea of transitioning on them without knowing how far M had gotten. It felt as if she heard 'trans' and ran with it thinking M's experience was going to be exactly like hers.
Then I found out Amy had been harassing a couple of the girls in the group to the point that they no longer came into the breakroom for lunch. Amy had been getting overly aggressive with them when she did not get the answer she wanted, brushed it off as hormones WHILE GIGGLING, and didn't apologize for it. She acted like it never happened when called out on it. It had become a habit of hers and it made me wonder if she thought that was a valid excuse due to women having mood swings due to periods and such. Apparently, Amy did not pick up on the fact that our group doesn't do that. If we snap at each other, we apologize and try to make it right. We don't do this crap. I also didn't need that around M.
Amy's attitude took a complete nosedive and it got to the point all of us started to avoid her. It wasn't only the group either. It was the male coworkers as well since Amy would snap at them, either accidentally using the wrong pronouns (They knew Amy before the transition and were trying their best to accommodate but nothing they did ever made Amy happy) or something entirely irrelevant.
When M did finally move down here, Amy made a beeline for M only to seem... disappointed(?) with what she saw. M showed no interest in her and didn't seem to care that Amy was trans as well. Honestly, I think it finally clicked in Amy's head that M was not something she thought they were.
Amy backed off but came to me one last time to talk about how M acted and I reiterated what I told her before. M is not social. They do not like strangers. I kinda embellished them a little so Amy would get the hint to leave M alone and she got it. Finally. Though, I think M would have made Amy cry due to how blunt they could be.
That still did not excuse her behavior toward the group. Amy moved on to another job about a month ago and I hope she's doing well. I also hope she learns that hormones are not an excuse to be abusive to others and that she needs to apologize when it happens. And not to push herself on others. 
 anonymous  Work  July 06, 2021 at 10:52 pm  3  0
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Let it go! IT left the building and is now someone else's fucked up gross problem. See, this is the shit I am talking about when I say that the LGBT rainbow alphabet mafia, is trying to force their shitty lifestyle choices on everyone, and create a society where everyone has to not just accept them, but love, adore, and honor them because something bad happened to them as children, and now they are emotionally damaged over it. All this "trans" stuff is a fad, and it epitomizes the destruction of our country and the dismantle of morals, decency, common sense, and godliness. We can't be a just society with rules and laws, allowing this crap to go on! Now, they can come into the workplace, demand you use certain "pronouns", demand you accept them in a group and have lunch with them everyday, then run around and make stupid, awkward, and cringy statements, while all around, acting like psychopaths and stalkers! In fact, there is "diversity training" in many work places that includes telling everyone they HAVE to like the trans/gay/lesbo, whatever, co-workers, or risk losing your job and being labeled a bigot for life! You have to go along with however one of these simp fruitcakes snowflakes "identify" as that day, or else, you're in the boss's office over it! You have to be constantly nice and generous to them, let them ramble about their lifestyle CHOICE and hormones, and bodies, and all their nasty repugnant issues, and if you don't want to hear it, IN the boss's office or off to HR you go!

These absurd attempts at "equality" have resulted in only very selective groups have rights, and everyone else, told to suck it up, even if they are uncomfortable, feel threatened, or unsafe! IT goes around blowing up at people who don't want to make it their best friend on the spot, and then says it's "hormones" with a hardy laugh?!!! That is preposterous!

Sure, these she-men and girly-boys, can live however the hell they want, but that doesn't the rest of us, who are normal and sane, have to accommodate their choices, and rearrange our entire society, workplaces, schools, and personals lives so we don't "offend" them by being annoying and disgusted!
 SL's Ranch  17 hours ago
STFU LARDLOON!!! Nobody cares about your bullshit! Now go back to drinking beer, kicking your dog and beating your wife!
 anonymous  16 hours ago
"Let it go! IT left the building and is now someone else's fucked up gross problem. See, this is the shit I am talking about when I say that the LGBT rain"

Out of jail again, Lardloon? Come clean, what was it this time? Another Antifa hippy got your underoos in a twist? Violated the Walmart restraining order while harassing yet another blue haired woman, and she went "Eeek!" when you sniffed her hair? Ripped a mask off of a cop? Come on, confession is good for the soul!
 anonymous  3 minutes ago
"hormones, and bodies, and all their nasty repugnant issues, and if you don't want to hear it"

Yep, so called "normal" women are real well adjusted these days-
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