July 2023 MBR The Human Sexuality Shelf

The Human Sexuality Shelf

Wild Monogamy
Mali Apple and Joe Dunn
A Higher Possibility
www.wildmonogamy.com
9780984562282, $16.00 print, $9.99 ebook, $TBA audiobook

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984562281

Wild Monogamy: Cultivating Erotic Intimacy to Keep Passion and Desire Alive is testimony to the notion that monogamy translates to eventual boredom in the bedroom and other rooms of the relationship house, as well. It provides keys to mitigating the impact of a long-term commitment by reintroducing the spicy elements of surprise that are often the hallmarks of a new sexual relationship, tailoring these to the long-haulers who are committed not only to each other exclusively, but the notion that passion can be maintained, extended, and ignited in any relationship no matter how long its duration.

Readers might anticipate some of these exercises and their focus, but the real surprise lies in a close inspection of underlying barriers to sexuality and relationships. These range from jealousy to negative self-perceptions. Mali Apple and Joe Dunn promote a method of not just transcending these emotions, but taking control of their power and using them to foster new erotic connections in a relationship.

Wild Monogamy directs readers to the process of identifying and working with their responses and emotions to encourage a greater sense of psychological and sexual connection with their partner, rather than looking elsewhere to fill the gaps. With its focus on conditioning, thought patterns, and physical and mental impacts on relationships, Wild Monogamy provides not just ideals, but solutions to common problems.

Stories of others in similar situations who harnessed the power and promise of new relationship approaches form the foundations of an example-driven approach: "In the stories that follow, you'll see examples of how couples have decided together what kinds of encounters might be right for them. In particular, notice how they support each other through any inse-curity or jealousy, as well as how their awareness and intentions help to ensure their experiences are enjoyable for all. And unlike options that are often designed to keep emotional connection to a minimum, such as swinging, sex clubs, or sex parties, notice that these stories involve intimacy on all levels: physical, intellectual/creative, emotional, and even spiritual."

Wild Monogamy's promise to monogamous couples rests on the premise that both participants are interested in considering positive changes designed to promote the longevity and passion of their relationship. Couples willing to do this kind of work, and libraries supporting them with materials that encourage it, will find Wild Monogamy a lesson in better living. It takes the latest research on sex and love and translates it into ideas and experiences any couple can learn from, tapping the healing power of eroticism to transform individuals and couples alike.

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