Last event per user

Hey guys,

So I have two tables: users and events. It is very common for my 
application to request the last user event.

Usually, what I'll do is get the user, and then SELECT * from events 
WHERE user_id = :user order by timestamp_inc desc LIMIT 1.

I have a big problem, however:

My app uses a ORM for SQL execution and generation and it cant create 
subselects at all. The Ideal solution for me would be a view which has 
all the users last events.

I tried:

creating a view (last_user_event_1) on "SELECT DISTINCT ON (user_id) * 
FROM events ORDER BY user_id, timestamp_inc DESC" and another one 
(last_user_event_2) which is a view on users with a lateral join on the 
last event.

Running the query with lateral join by itself is very fast, and exactly 
what I need. It usually runs < 1ms. The one with "distinct on (user_id)" 
takes around 20ms to complete which is just too slow for my needs.

My problem is that when I run a query JOINing users with 
last_user_event_2, it takes about 2 seconds:

This is the explain output from joining users with "last_user_event_2":

https://explain.depesz.com/s/oyEp

And this is with "last_user_event_1":

https://explain.depesz.com/s/hWwF

Any help would be greatly appreciated.