Confusing/unclear documentation of Sed back references

Dear GNU sed maintainers,

I believe that either Sed documentation is unclear, or its implementation
has a defect, regarding back references in -r mode.
https://www.gnu.org/software/sed/manual/sed.html#index-Backreferences_002c-in-regular-expressions-103
reads that the match has to be between \( and its matching \). However,
that only works if you don't use -r mode:

echo HELLO | sed  "s/\(HELLO\)/She said:\1/"
She said:HELLO

If you use -r, then
echo HELLO | sed *-r* "s/*\(*HELLO*\)*/She said:\1"
sed: -e expression #1, char 23: unterminated `s' command

The correct way with -r is to have the match between ( and ), not between
\( and \):
echo HELLO | sed *-r* "s/*(*HELLO*)*/She said:\1/"
She said:HELLO

That may be documented somewhere in your manual, but it's not documented at
the section above. This is highly confusing and counter-productive. Please
update the manual or fix the implementation.

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Best regards,

-Peter Kehl