How to modify the multi-column primary key of a table?

Howdy, y'all

(note: this is a simplification of my actual problem)

So, I have a table PEOPLE with columns (name, email, phone):
CREATE TABLE PEOPLE (
 name VARCHAR(10),
 email VARCHAR(10),
 phone VARCHAR(10),
 PRIMARY KEY (alpha, bravo, charlie)
);

I also have a table SIBLINGS, with some other columns, and which uses
the columns from KEY as a set of foreign keys
CREATE TABLE SIBLINGS (
 name VARCHAR(10),
 email VARCHAR(10),
 phone VARCHAR(10),
 sibling VARCHAR(10) NOT NULL,
 relation VARCHAR(10) NOT NULL,
FOREIGN KEY (name, email, phone) REFERENCES PEOPLE ON UPDATE CASCADE
ON DELETE CASCADE
);


I now discover that I want to add a new field to the KEY table.  My
question is, how do I ALTER those tables so that the end state is as
if I had specified the extra column at the outset?  Actually adding
the columns is straightforward:
ALTER TABLE KEY ADD COLUMN address VARCHAR(10) DEFAULT '(unspecified)';
ALTER TABLE SIBLINGS ADD COLUMN address VARCHAR(10) DEFAULT '(unspecified)';

Q1: The tricky part is managing the constraints.  As far as I
understand, "PRIMARY KEY" translates to multi-column "UNIQUE" and "NOT
NULL" constraints, and also creates an index on that set of columns.
So it seems like the first thing I need to do is to drop that pair of
constraints on PEOPLE and add new constraints that apply across (name,
email, phone, address).  How do I do that?

Q2: How I should ALTER SIBLINGS to maintain consistency.  In
particular, will anything untoward happen if I try to drop the
existing FOREIGN KEY constraint before adding the new one?  (I am
guaranteed to be the only writer to the DB during this upgrade)

Q3: Finally, and more generally, how do I drop unnamed table
constraints?  I know that hsqldb gives me:
ALTER TABLE <tablename> DROP CONSTRAINT <constraintname>;
But where do I get the <constraintname> from?


Thanks!
--xsdg

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