Setting netigso(felix) properties from a maven based NetBeans platform module(nbm-maven-plugin)

I'm attempting to use controlsfx in an nbm but at runtime the module fails to load because Felix doesn't expose com.sun.javafx.collections.

So I need to add it to the org.osgi.framework.system.packages.extra property but i dont know where to do that.

I've tried 
nbm-maven-plugin/configuration/additionalArguments,
maven-surefire-plugin/configuration/argLine, and 
maven-surefire-plugin/configuration/systemPropertyVariables
all without success

Log Messages:

> Warning - could not install some modules: org.controlsfx - org.netbeans.InvalidException: Netigso: E:\Repository\moos-analyst-ui\terramenta-moos-application\target\terramenta_moos\terramenta_moos\modules\org-controlsfx.jar: Cannot start org.controlsfx state remains INSTALLED after start()




> org.osgi.framework.BundleException: Unresolved constraint in bundle org.controlsfx [79]: Unable to resolve 79.0: missing requirement [79.0] osgi.wiring.package; (osgi.wiring.package=com.sun.javafx.collections)
> 	at org.apache.felix.framework.Felix.resolveBundleRevision(Felix.java:3974)
> 	at org.apache.felix.framework.Felix.startBundle(Felix.java:2037)
> 	at org.apache.felix.framework.Felix.setActiveStartLevel(Felix.java:1291)
> 	at org.apache.felix.framework.FrameworkStartLevelImpl.run(FrameworkStartLevelImpl.java:304)
> 	at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:745)