Re: Fixing things Akonadi doesn't with some SQL-fu

Dear René,

René J.V. Bertin - 21.03.18, 11:04:
> [to Paul]
> 
> > If you want to be unhappy, that is entirely and solely your choice
> 
> Can we please keep that kind of remark out of the (any) discussion? It's
> even less productive than "blaming, blaming and more blaming" and frankly
> arrogant to anyone who's ever had to deal with depression.

Right.

I allowed myself to be triggered by the blaming tone in Paul´s note, wanting 
to control how he behaves. But as I wrote, it is his choice to either continue 
to give his power away by blaming what seems to appear external and 
unchangeable to him, or constructively engage with helping to change the 
current situation. Anyway, this clearly shows me I´d rather stop investing 
time with replying to mails that put the main notion on blame.

I don´t agree with your "frankly arrogant to anyone who´s ever had to deal 
with depression" accusation for several reasons (including that I do not share 
the common notion on how dis-eases come into place after learning a lot on how 
I create and perceive so called reality), but that reaches far into areas that 
are off topic on this list. I did not mean it in disrespect to Paul or anyone 
else.

Thanks,
-- 
Martin