RE: beyondhom Laughing at time of intimacy

Hi Aliyah

 

An interesting case!

 

So we have MALE, Aversion to Coition as our prime rubric.

 

You see during sex, the male must take an active part and must achieve an
erection which should last a reasonable period.  And if he cannot perform
this active role, then his maleness comes under question.

 

So we need to build a bigger picture to be able to come up with a suitable
remedy.

 

Based on "six years ago he went abroad, caught a fever and ever since he's
had this problem", we need to know what type of fever he got and was it
really a fever.

 

You see he may have picked up an STD and for cultural reasons may not have
even gone to have it treated.  So out of fear of giving it to his wife and
then being found out, he would avoid coition with her at any cost - even
actually hurting her feelings etc.

 

So you need to delve into this matter with some tact and get the real truth
out of him.

 

There other question is that whether this laugh is a pretend laugh, or one
that he cannot control himself.

And what does he say to his wife when this happens?  How does he feel
himself?

 

Now having sex for men is usually a serious matter.  So if it is genuine
uncontrolled laughter, then we can also take 

Mind Laughing  - serious matters, over and these two rubrics narrow the
choice to: LYC, Nat-m, Bufo, Nux-m and Phos.

 

Please find out how he feels about this problem?

And as he is not having sex with his wife what is happening to his sexual
desires?

Can he achieve an erection?  When does he have it?

Does he ejaculate? When and how?

 

What are his fears and anxieties?

 

And just as he is about to leave the consultation, say to him: Before coming
to see me. what did you decide in your own mind not to tell me?

He may find himself in an embarrassing situation and give you the answer
quickly or look at you in silence and dis-belief at being trapped.  Invite
him to sit down and tell you the truth!

 

Good luck!

Soroush

 

 

 

From: [email protected]
[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Shannon Nelson
Sent: 17 March 2013 12:17
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: beyondhom Laughing at time of intimacy

 

  

This isn't the sort of information you wait for someone to *mention*, in
homeopathy -- it is absolutely key.  Without it you have no case, only
speculation.  

 

He doesn't mean to.  Well, we could speculate that it's a nervous reflex
caused by brain damage from the fever -- which makes me think of one remedy;
but the truth could be something entirely different.

 

 

 

On Mar 17, 2013, at 1:09 AM, Aliyah <[email protected]> wrote:





  

 

He says thats exactly his problem...ie. When he is approached for intimacy
he laughs n pushes his wife away. But he doesnt mean to.

Shanon there wasnt anything else he mentioned around that time

Thank you xx