RE: interesting post on women and Islam from Progressivemuslimsnetwork
"Mahruq F. Khan" <[email protected]>
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i had a couple of initial reactions to this post. i do agree that the forced donning of hijab emanates from issues of male power/dominance, which should be denounced in all instances, but the hijab is a complicated phenomenon b/c in some instances (like Iran and Turkey) women use the hijab as a political tool--as a means of gaining access to public space and increase their perceived religio-political credibility (although i don't believe credibility should be predicated on physical appearance, unfortunately it is a present day reality that we must confront). furthermore, this post implies that those who wear hijab are, by necessity, staying at home and out of the public space, which, again, unfortunately is true in some misogynistic societies like saudi and pakistan, but we must not forget that there are a significant number of hijabi women in other societies such as the US, malaysia, iran, etc. are seeking higher levels of education, are leaders of their muslim students, and are an instrumental part of many civic muslim and secular institutions. furthermore, i disagree that hijab strips women of identity. it may not allow women to style their hair in a way that reflects their personality, but this argument presumes that identity is only manifested in the freedom to keep your hair the way you like it (which i think you should be able to do). however, that does not mean that hijabi women (who have access to public space) do not have an identity. in fact, per Rhys Williams' study of American Muslim women, it was found that hijabi Muslim American women negotiate their multiple American and Muslim identities and the hijab serves as one means of that asserting that, especially since many women choose to do it, even though their families may discourage it. i do, however, find that women are over sexualized in islamic discourse, as they are in a society like America--just in different ways. and i do question why we pray in the back of the masjid (knowing that the common understanding is that it would be immodest for women to prostrate in prayer while men look on), but this explanation is extremely problematic for obvious reason (discounts women looking at men in a sexual manner, etc). AND i do think that we do need to create a space for discourse surrounding women's inability to deliver khutbas. (i once asked about this and was told that it's part of the Friday Prayer ritual that the person delivering the khutba also leads the congregational prayer, and a women can't lead prayer for aforementioned reasons.) that convo really needs to be underway.... lastly, it would be nice if women and men could pray together, that women could choose to wear hijab if they wanted and not be banned from schools (i.e. France), that women could choose to NOT wear hijab and not be seen as less devoted to their faith, and lead prayers and all that....but i think that women and men praying side by side does not necessarily lead to the waning of gender inequality b/w muslim men and women. there must be a simultaneous effort to change the current discourse on gender, gender relations, and detach women and men from prescribed "roles" in society (e.g. men are financial providers, women responsible for raising good Muslim children), that are based on essentialist notions of gender. thanks for listening and, btw, when i tried to subscribe to this mailing list it, i received a "Delivery Failure" email, so i may not receive any email replies sent to the listserv... ----- Original Message ----- From: "Kate Ahmad" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Monday, February 02, 2004 7:20 PM Subject: RE: [Progressivemuslimsnetwork] Re: ProgressiveMuslims digest, Vol 1 #357 - 14 msgs > Salaam, > I agree, and I also thought the letter was great. Being in australia I cant > offer my support in person, but I would like to in some other form. > Do you think muslims over sexualise the female body, or perhaps its > something else? To me, it seems a lot about keeping women in a less > powerful position than men. Everything from hijab, segragated mosques, the > lack of female imams etc - they all add up to make women inferior and > submissive to the will of men. The hijab, progressing to the niqaab and > burqa really serves to depersonalise women - and women can never be > prominent in society if they have no identity. So - if you cover your wife, > and make her stay at home, or in a back room at the mosque - you can be sure > she will never have any influence on the outside world. Thats why you see 2 > year old girls in hijab - its not a sexual thing - its a power thing. > The whole situation is ridiculous.......... why have muslims come to this > point where most of our effort go into rabidly enforcing rules to keep women > out of public life, in fear that they might incite the dreaded fitna!!!? > Insha'allah women will one day pray with men, and maybe even behind a female > imam one day - that would be fantastic!!! > > Wa'salaam > aisha > > > >From: Safiyya Noureddine <[email protected]> > >Reply-To: [email protected] > >To: [email protected] > >Subject: [Progressivemuslimsnetwork] Re: ProgressiveMuslims digest, Vol 1 > >#357 - 14 msgs > >Date: Mon, 2 Feb 2004 07:03:08 -0800 (PST) > > > >Asalaam Alaikuum > > > >The letter was great, I think it is important for the masjid "elites" to > >know that many of us support what she did. I also think that it is great > >that she is starting a list in regards to the issue. Muslims need to > >stop oversexualizing the female body. I personally think that is what it > >all comes down to in the end. Take care. > > > >safiyya > > > > > > > > > >--------------------------------- > >Do you Yahoo!? > >Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free web site building tool. Try it! > > _________________________________________________________________ > Hot chart ringtones and polyphonics. Go to > http://ninemsn.com.au/mobilemania/default.asp > > > _______________________________________________ > ProgressiveMuslims mailing list > [email protected] > http://willo.nitric.co.za/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/progressivemuslims > _________________________________________________________________ Learn how to choose, serve, and enjoy wine at Wine @ MSN. http://wine.msn.com/