[SwF] Islam about 'liking' other girls.

Hello all,

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~FurSid


RE: [SU] Islam about 'liking' other girls.
asalam u alaikum

well brother whatever your heart says is right in the western society its
difficult to live in these situations like yours but if you live according
to the teachings of islam the reward is great.  anyway if i was you i will
only approach a girl if i want to marry her or i want to gain
knowlege.  in
your situation read aozu billah 3 times and read lahaola wala qowata
complete 3 times and blow on you and pray to allah to give you strength to
subside those feelings and concentrate on your studies.  so keep away
do the
rightful things if you approach her today it can end up in the against
islam
islam situation which is unforgiveable. i pray to our ALLAH TABARAK
WATALLAH
to give you strenth to do right things.
wassalam


>From: "m_s2k7" <m_s2k7-/[email protected]>
>Reply-To: [email protected]
>To: [email protected]
>Subject: [SU] Islam about 'liking' other girls.
>Date: Fri, 16 Sep 2005 23:42:40 -0000
>
>Aslam Alikum.
>
>I live in the West and im currently in high school. As a muslim in
>the US i have to keep my belief as a muslim and keep my faith in
>Allah strong. Yet, lately, I have found that i 'like' this girl at
>school, and she is non muslim. Im not attracted to her sexually,
>just her as a person. She is my age. I have NO intentions of doing
>anything AT ALL what so ever with her and it will stay that way no
>matter what the circumstances are. But i am really confused. Some
>people tell me that if i just tell her i like her nothing will
>happen. But i dont want to even put myself in a position were it may
>be possible that i may commit a sin.
>
>But back to my question. Is it halal for me to have these feelings?
>To like this girl. I understand its only natural, but I feel like
>its not halal. And if i tell her taht i 'like' her, will that be a
>sin? Even though i wont do anything at all after that? Ever.
>
>Thanks
>
>Aslaam Alikum
>
>
>
>




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