Missing Menus and Folder Icons

This may be off topic, but I am using OpenSUSE on my laptop so I have
some an excuse for posting here :)

After upgrading from OpenSUSE 10.2 to 10.3 i386 on my old Thinkpad A30 I
am missing my menus for suspending (disk or mem) and shutting down the
system. How do I get them back (because suspending to disk worked for me)?
You can see a screenshot here:
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2388/1878036871_da3d03ae42.jpg (in
German) - shows only logout ...

Kpowersave is running and working. BTW, how can i setup my power button
for shutdown? This worked in 10.1 and I never got it running again.

I did not find any answers: Some time ago I tried to change the icon for
folders in KDE, but now I do not have any icon for a folder which is
very disturbing. Where do I setup a default folder icon?

Well, all not major glitches but if working very useful for my everyday
work ...

Regards,

Jürgen