Disable auto login after resume from standby

Here's the issue.  If I'm running exodus, manually log out, and put my 
laptop in standby, then resume from standby, Exodus immediately tries to 
automatically log in.  I can understand it doing that if it was logged 
in when I put it into standby, but if it was logged out when it went 
into standby, it really shouldn't try to log back in when resuming.  Is 
there some way to disable this behavior other than disabling 
auto-reconnect entirely?  I'd like for it to be able to auto-reconnect 
when a server briefly goes down or something like that, but I really 
don't want it to auto log me in after resuming from standby when I was 
previously logged out.

Thanks,
Joel