Re: Digest Number 1021

Con fecha martes, 11 de abril de 2006, 18:18:42, escribió:

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V5yc>       1. The Power of Love - Dating Smart
V5yc>            From: "C. K." <[email protected]>


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V5yc>    Date: Tue, 11 Apr 2006 02:05:01 -0700 (PDT)
V5yc>    From: "C. K." <[email protected]>
V5yc> Subject: The Power of Love - Dating Smart



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V5yc> You don’t need to depend on fate to bring “The
V5yc> One” to your doorstep. You might have to wait a
V5yc> very long time. 

V5yc> You don’t have to be the prettiest girl or the
V5yc> most handsome guy to be a successful dater. You
V5yc> don’t need a huge bank account. You don’t have to
V5yc> drive a new sports car, live in a large home, have
V5yc> the best sense of humor, or the most confidence.
V5yc> These things are all desirable; but chances are,
V5yc> they won’t keep the target of your affection
V5yc> around forever. 

V5yc> So what is it that you need to get and keep your
V5yc> love around? The answer is simple. 

V5yc> Power. 

V5yc> Many people looking for relationships are
V5yc> searching for someone to complete them, to fill in
V5yc> what is lacking in their own lives. A smart dater
V5yc> pays attention to detail, determines what it is
V5yc> that the other person is lacking, and ultimately
V5yc> provides it. A smart dater knows that when you are
V5yc> a source of something another person needs to be
V5yc> happy, you have power over them. 

V5yc> The first step to achieving power and becoming a
V5yc> smart dater is assessing the personality of the
V5yc> person you want to be with. You must zone in on
V5yc> the characteristic that defines the person most.
V5yc> Then, use your observations about their
V5yc> personality to determine what the person needs in
V5yc> his or her life to be happy. Finally, provide it. 

V5yc> Take, for example, the aggressive personality. If
V5yc> you’re in love with The Aggressor, you know that
V5yc> he or she isn’t a bit shy. The Aggressor knows
V5yc> what he or she is after, and thrives on the
V5yc> challenge of attaining it. Love with The Aggressor
V5yc> can be compared to a sport, and The Aggressor is
V5yc> looking to win. Like in any sport, an easy victory
V5yc> can be quite boring and quick. Your task is to
V5yc> give the Aggressor a challenge. Do not let your
V5yc> heart be an easy win. If you do, the Aggressor
V5yc> will simply move on to the next person. When the
V5yc> Aggressor leaves you a voice mail to call them
V5yc> back, forget to call. When the Aggressor asks you
V5yc> out for a date, once in a while tell them that you
V5yc> are too busy. Be moody, selfish, and difficult
V5yc> from time to time. Now, don’t be completely mean –
V5yc> remember, you must give kindness and affection to
V5yc> The Aggressor as much as you take it away. This
V5yc> will drive The Aggressor insane, and cause him or
V5yc> her to lose focus of the game. In no time, you’ll
V5yc> be holding the trophy. 

V5yc> Perhaps your love interest is not The Aggressor.
V5yc> Perhaps he or she is reserved and shy. This
V5yc> personality type tends to be innocent, and maybe
V5yc> lacking in solid relationship experience. You job,
V5yc> then, is to initiate The Quiet One into the realm
V5yc> of relationships and dating. Give The Quiet One
V5yc> something to get excited about. Shower The Quiet
V5yc> One with frivolous gifts and attention. Approach
V5yc> The Quiet One with zest, energy, and an
V5yc> ultra-positive attitude about life. Essentially,
V5yc> bring The Quiet One out of his or her shell,
V5yc> making them feel comfortable with you. In return,
V5yc> The Quiet One will become almost dependant on you
V5yc> for fun, activity, and love. 

V5yc> There are a myriad of personality types you will
V5yc> find out in the world. Another is The Snob. This
V5yc> person needs an average Joe or Jane to bring them
V5yc> down to earth. They won’t want to stoop to the
V5yc> level of giving you a second look – but be
V5yc> persistent. The Snob’s affection is earned. The
V5yc> more affection you give, the more flattered The
V5yc> Snob will become. This is because The Snob, by
V5yc> trait, likes to be given things. Instead of
V5yc> spoiling the Snob with things he or she already
V5yc> has, provide something unique. Cook The Snob
V5yc> romantic dinners at home, and skip the fancy
V5yc> restaurants. Pick the female Snob wildflowers
V5yc> instead of buying traditional roses. The Snob can
V5yc> then brag to other Snobs that he or she has
V5yc> someone “different” than everyone else. And as you
V5yc> know, Snobs always like to have what everyone else
V5yc> doesn’t. 

V5yc> There is also The Soap Opera Star. If you have the
V5yc> saintly qualities needed to love The Soap Opera
V5yc> Star, more power to you. This person eats, sleeps,
V5yc> and breathes drama. Take the normal ups and downs
V5yc> in life, and multiply them by 1000. Such is the
V5yc> life of The Soap Opera Star. The Soap Opera Star
V5yc> misplaces his golf club, and everything that
V5yc> happens from that point on in the day is
V5yc> absolutely ruined. Don’t be surprised if The Soap
V5yc> Opera Star takes his or her troubles out on you.
V5yc> If you desire to love this gem, patience,
V5yc> understanding (even if you must pretend) and the
V5yc> ability to console are qualities you have to put
V5yc> forth. The Soap Opera Star will end up completely
V5yc> in love with you. If you decide to leave The Soap
V5yc> Opera Star, he or she will stalk you. 

V5yc> Another popular personality is The Complainer.
V5yc> Everything annoys The Complainer. You can tell The
V5yc> Complainer that he or she looks nice today, and
V5yc> they will respond with a very serious, “Why do you
V5yc> have to lie to me? I gained 5 pounds in the last
V5yc> week, my pants look too short, and I’m having a
V5yc> bad hair day. I definitely know I can’t trust you
V5yc> to tell me the truth.” If you truly love The
V5yc> Complainer, you will never take their words to
V5yc> heart. You will also keep providing them with more
V5yc> topics to complain about, like a drug supply to an
V5yc> addict. Bring up topics that you know they love to
V5yc> moan about. They, in turn, will provide you with
V5yc> hours of one-on-one conversation. You’d better
V5yc> have a good ear to listen, and be able to support
V5yc> them in their outlandish claims. Don’t expect to
V5yc> do too much talking yourself. The Complainer will
V5yc> love you to death. Literally. 

V5yc> All in all, no matter what type of person you are
V5yc> trying to win over, you can do it with a little
V5yc> bit of common sense and consideration. Think your
V5yc> way through the situation. That’s all it takes.
V5yc> The power of love is in your hands. 



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