Re: Peter Gabriel -- In Your Eyes

On Sep 20, 2025, David Dalton wrote
(in article<[email protected]>):

> Does anyone know if Peter Gabriel got together with the
> person who In Your Eyes is about, and, if so, if they
> are still together?
>
> From my matchmaking ability Peter Gabriel is bim (male
> attracted to both genders, not necessarily having sex
> with both genders) and the song sounds like one required
> part of the forming of a lifelong lock between a bim
> and a straight-type-2-F (female compatible, orgasmic
> up close, only with bims). This part is powerful full
> frontal eye contact, drinking each other up.
>
> The other required part, which would have to occur
> within three lunar months of the eye contact, would
> be a powerful, electric, warming, compatible touch.
>
> But unfortunately in some cases the lifelong lock
> is not consummated and results in what I call an
> old lock. That is, they don’t get together, and
> the bim is capable of being involved with gays, other
> bims, straight-type-1-Fs, and bifs, but not other
> straight-type-2-Fs, but the straight-type-2-F is
> unable to get together with any other bim without
> the permission of her primary bim, and sometimes
> might identify as asexual, and also might have
> a lot of gay friends.
>
> On Sunday evening, as part of a complicate omnibus
> prayer developed over 29.65 years, I will attempt to change
> this so that no-sex locks will be rendered incomplete,
> and will not be complete until there is sex, which
> is already true for straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F.
>
> In my caae I am straight-type-2-M and have an old lock
> with bif (female attracted to both genders, not necessarily
> having sex with both genders) Sarah McLachlan, with
> the Stare referenced in her song I Love You, and the
> Touch referenced in her song Sweet Surrender.
> Some straight-type-2-Ms with an old lock might identify
> as incel, and also might have a lot of lesbian friends.
> (Jack Nicholson is straight-type-2-M with an old lock
> and I have suggested bif Judi Dench as a match for him
> after his old lock is rendered incomplete or he gets
> permission from his old lock bif to be involved with Judi.)

From my matchmaking ability,
Peter Gabriel’s current wife, Meabh Flynn, who he married
in 2002, is straight-type-2-F. His former wife, Jill Moore,
who he was married to from 1971--1987, is bif, so they
were only partially compatible (compatible, but less than
optimally sexually compatible, and less likely to stick).

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