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PUT TO BED EARLIER THAN YOUNGER SIBLINGS
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A Story Luc, Please?

Posted by early_bedtimer on 2009-05-23 21:11:41
Please, ask detailed questions, you'll receive detailed replies ;-)

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Posted by nray999_b on 2009-05-27 01:58:19
Luc, I saw your posting on Google so here I am. I have lots of questions but I will start with a few. It looks like you added some questions to the poll, is this correct? I would like to know more about what you wear to bed and how you are put to bed for a start. 
Can you describe your nightclothes in detail? In the last question you mention wearing a nightie, can you tell me more about styles and materials? Are you involved in buying them and do you have any choice in what you wear? Also do you wear different nighties if you are being punished or sent to bed for your sister's convenience? Do you normally wear anything else to bed like a night cap, ear plugs or a sleep mask? How do you feel wearing nighties, are they comfortable, embarrassing, exciting or?

When you are in bed are you allowed to read or listen to music and can you get up to go to the bathroom or is your door locked? Do you have a baby monitor in your room? What sort of sheets and covers are on your bed and are there any other restrictions on you. Does your mother use medication to make you sleep?

When you are prepared for bed do you undress yourself or are you undressed by another? Is this different for a punishment? When do you normally change into your nightie? Also what are the arrangements for bathing, both normally and for a punishment.

When your sisters babysit you do they treat you more strictly (earlier bedtime or immediate bed time) or the same. Does anybody else babysit you if your mother and sisters are away?

Thanks V

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Posted by early_bedtimer on 2009-05-27 17:24:07
"how you are put to bed for a start?"

I've ever been put to bed early by mom. At the birth of Edith, my first half-sister, I was 6 y.o. and my bedtime was already at 6:00 pm. My sister did sleep in my room at the same time. Two years later, when Sarah, my other sister came, that continues so: bedtime at 6 for the three of us, in the same bedroom. When Edith was 7 (and I was 13-14), she slept in her own bedroom and her bedtime was later because she had dance lessons and mom takes care of her. My bedtime and the one of Sarah did stay at 6 for a while, until Sarah starts also to dance and to play piano. Both the girls had then the same room (my former one, I had to move in a smaller one), and a later bedtime than mine that did stay at 6:00 pm. Since such an early bedtime suits mom (who doesn't like I'd go out in the evening and thinks I'm less mature and reliable than the girls) and my sisters (who can stay in peace after dinner with mom, play together, chat, watch TV programs they prefer…), I've still to be ready to sleep for the night at 6:00. As when I was younger, I've then to make me ready for bed at 5:15 and to dine in nightie at 5:30 to be in bed on time, while the younger girls are still fully clothed.

I've then such early bedtimes since I was a little baby, and mom said I'm today a big baby and I'll have to get into bed as soon as she wants, as long as I'll live with her and my younger sisters. The girls bedtime is at 9:00 or 9:30 on weekdays and 11:00 or even midnight on holidays.

My mother was always stricter about me than about my younger sis. When we fought (and still we fight) or when one of my sisters accuse me rightly or unfairly, that's everytime me who's punished, put straight to bed for the rest of the day, had (and has) earlier bedtime on weekdays and whole day in bed during weekends and holidays. And that's often so. Besides, sometimes mom spanks me bare bottom (with only my nightie on) in front of my younger sisters (and even some of their young mates) before a cornertime and a more or less long time bed confinement.

Mom always put me to bed earlier everytime she or my sistres have guests. I've to sleep before they come and in this case mom usually uses medication (sirup or suppositories). I've off course to stay in bed since next morning even when the guests leave early.

When mom goes out, I've to be in bed before she leaves. When she's absent only for a short while, that's rather my sisters who put me to bed and babysit me. For a longer lenght, my babysitter is usually a neighbour (a girl younger than me, without a risk for her because I'm anyway in bed and locked up with babyphone on) or Catherine, one of my classmates who is also my girlfriend.

Once in bed, at any time, I'm not allowed to read nor listen music or radio, except sometimes when I'm in bed before 3:30 pm (I've next to take a snack then to sleep) because of bad weather outdoor (and for not hampering mom and sisters at home). That's usually Edith and/or Sarah who do me ready to sleep. They close my shutters and curtains, tuck me in, switch my baby monitor on (a "Switel" which has also a talkie-walkie function), kiss me nite-nite, order me to obey and to sleep immediatly, switch my light off, then lock me up.

Punished or no, I'm no more allowed to get up once put to bed. I'm moreover not able to go out my bedroom since I'm shut away, nor to dress again since I had to leave all my clothes and shoes in the wardrobe before to get into bed (and I'd punished if I'd forget its). I've a potty in my bedroom and, if I've a need daytime, I can call mom, sisters or babysitter by the baby monitor. One of them eventually goes upstairs to let me go to the toilet before to put me again to bed.

Other explanations in a next message 

Chris

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Posted by nray999_b on 2009-05-28 00:11:05
Thanks for answering so quickly. I hope you can tell more about nighties and bed preparation next time. Also when you are confined to bed all day for punishment are you allowed up at all for meals or bathing?

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Posted by early_bedtimer on 2009-05-28 14:26:31
"Can you describe your nightclothes in detail?"

I never wear pyjama nor panties, only female or girl nighties with nothing under. They are different depending the season. In summer, they are short and fine, light colored (pink, blue pastel, white, yellow), most of them without sleeves, often with floral or childish motives. In automn and winter, they are longer and larger, are in cotton and have sleeves. Some of them were the former ones of mom. Others are gifts from mommy, from my girlfriend and babysitter Catherine (2 years a half younger than me even if in the same class), and even from other classmates.

The one I prefer, comes from Catherines mother. Its color is salmon, it's long, almost transparent, with black thin straps. I received its for my 19th anniversary. I had to accompany Catherine, her mother and her younger sister Christine in the lingerie boutique of a friend of Catherines mom and mine. I had to undress fully for fitting some babydolls and nighties. The owner was amused seeing me walking so barefoot and naked under nighties through her shop in front of other amazed female customers. Herself gives me a well-matched night cap! During the whole fitting, I was very, very embarrassed but I'd in the same time to refrain my trouble and my excitation. I was happily soon token back home and put straight to bed in the early afternoon by Catherine, after the boutiques owner and her customers wished me an "happy birthday" and a "good night".

I normally wear a fresh nightgown once a week, when I've to get into bed at my usual Sunday bedtime, at the latest in the middle of the afternoon.

I've not other nightclothes when bed punished, but I put my current nightie on when I've to be spanked bare bottom and to have a cornertime downstairs in the living room.

Mom wants I have my night cap on when I've to stay in bed all day as a punishment or by bad weather, especially during winter weekends and Xmas holidays. On cold days, I've then to spend most of the time in bed and, rather than to get up barefoot to go to brush my teeth and occasionaly go to the toilet or bring back downstairs my tray after a meal in bed, mommy lends me slippers of her. They are pink with a pompom and have heels.

I feel absolutely comfortable with a nightie on in bed, but at once embarrassed and excited to be seen by everyone, as a near 20 years old boy so undressed, already in bed or ready to go to sleep, at any time in the day, when all the others, even very much younger kids, are still up and fully dressed for hours. Usually, however, I'm already tucked in bed and asleep light off when guests come home, and like this I don't see them when they come by curiosity to glance at me being without a doubt the only for miles around lying so early, daytime, between his sheets, without to be ill nor actually a little baby.

Chris

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