Re: Internal resistance

Chris Morris wrote:
> See, in this example, I'd say you have resistance to an introverted 
> environment, and that you understand why. In that case, there's no 
> reason to pursue why, you've already got it. You've already arrived at 
> using resistance as a resource.
> 
> I'd also say that finding the underlying cause to resistance does not by 
> definition entail labelling it a 'problem'. I think that's one of the 
> core bits to Dale's efforts -- to get away from labelling the resistance 
> itself as a good or bad thing so that we can work on getting down to the 
> cause.

This is a very good point, IMHO!

> Or, in my preferred terms, my emotions are amoral -- they are mere 
> reflections of my beliefs. It's my beliefs themselves that are to be 
> judged right or wrong.

It may well be that by finding out why we resist something we find that 
there is a good reason for our resistance. And that our resistance 
"protects" us from something that doesn't go along with our beliefs.
This is good news!
Then we really use resistance as a resource that helps und protects us. 
For me it's part of our intuition. It's about our judgement from 
experience that guides us, even though our concious mind doesn't know 
all the details. And sometimes it's interesting to understand our 
intuition, because that can help us understand ourselves even better.

Thank you all for the interesting insights! I learned a lot.

Greetings,
    Malte



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