Re: Trust and Resistance

On Tuesday, April 6, 2004, at 5:12:54 AM, Dale Emery wrote:

> What leads you to trust someone?

Generally I default to trusting people. At least I think I do.

> What leads you not to trust someone?

An incredible story. Something in their manner that I can't put a finger
on. A request that goes far beyond the current bounds of the relationship,
potentially harmful to me. A pattern of not meeting commitments.

> What else would you like to say about trust?

I feel that I don't make many decisions about what to do or what not to do
based on trust. It's more of an intuitive assessment of whether it would be
fun, the impact of the possible outcomes, the truth of the basic
proposition. I feel that I suppose the other person is telling me the truth
as they know it.

> What else would you like to ask?

Is trust really a high-impact aspect of your day to day decision making in
situations with others? Tell me about that?

Ron Jeffries
www.XProgramming.com
It is a bad plan that admits of no modifications. -- Publius Syrus (ca. 42 BCE)



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