Re: go girl

Salaam,

Joyce, sounds like good decisions on your part.  in
addition, as a convert i think i'd be concerned about
someone who might be looking for someone a bit more
malleable than I actually am.  the 'lectures' while
maybe just nerves with these guys, would probably send
me in that direction--he's looking for thus &
such--and it might be hard for me to shake that
belief, right or wrong.  anyway, i'm not an expert on
marrying men or on marrying muslim men (should that be
seen as somehow different). :-)  i just have some
maybe quirky ideas.
with love & peace, Vana