Re: Rwanda

Charmi Miller <[email protected]> Thu, 27 May 2004 08:39:34 -0400
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sister aisha,

i'm not afdhere, obviously, but i want to respond to you...

but I know, as much as I can know anything

it IS only "as much as you CAN know" - none of us can know for sure what
we are capable of until we find ourselves face to face with situations
we haven't yet been able to imagine.  for example, sometimes when people
have been hurt or abused to extreme degrees they become capable of acts
they could never have imagined.  and sometimes, yes, all it takes is
becoming one with a mob to cause some people to do things no one else
could have imagined them capable of doing.

but, i think it might be that if you know you hold no true enmity in
your heart, and suffer equally for all suffering people, and already
have the habit of speaking up, you are building for yourself protection
against ever becoming one with a killer mob.  i'm sure you know that in
all these situations there are those who resist successfully.  but they
don't have that ability just because they saw what was going on in that
emergency situation as being dreadfully wrong; they have that ability
because they had fostered in themselves a deep sense of what is right
and wrong, as an automatic sense.

hehe.. i might be saying all of this as much for me as for you, since i
hope that i also could never, ever, do such things.  but... the only
other thing we can do is remain true to ourselves in holding a love for
people deep deep in our heart - a real love and respect and acceptance.
i think that's the basis for never developing the malleability that
drives a mob, whether the mob is molesting women - as at that parade in
nyc, or trashing and burning cars after some sports event, or carrying
out murders and rapes and tortures - anywhere.

charmi




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sister aisha,
<p>i'm not afdhere, obviously, but i want to respond to you...<i></i>
<p><i>but I know, as much as I can know anything</i><i></i>
<p>it IS only "as much as you CAN know" - none of us can know for sure
what we are capable of until we find ourselves face to face with situations
we haven't yet been able to imagine.&nbsp; for example, sometimes when
people have been hurt or abused to extreme degrees they become capable
of acts they could never have imagined.&nbsp; and sometimes, yes, all it
takes is becoming one with a mob to cause some people to do things no one
else could have imagined them capable of doing.
<p>but, i think it might be that if you know you hold no true enmity in
your heart, and suffer equally for all suffering people, and already have
the habit of speaking up, you are building for yourself protection against
ever becoming one with a killer mob.&nbsp; i'm sure you know that in all
these situations there are those who resist successfully.&nbsp; but they
don't have that ability just because they saw what was going on in that
emergency situation as being dreadfully wrong; they have that ability because
they had fostered in themselves a deep sense of what is right and wrong,
as an automatic sense.
<p>hehe.. i might be saying all of this as much for me as for you, since
i hope that i also could never, ever, do such things.&nbsp; but... the
only other thing we can do is remain true to ourselves in holding a love
for people deep deep in our heart - a real love and respect and acceptance.&nbsp;
i think that's the basis for never developing the malleability that drives
a mob, whether the mob is molesting women - as at that parade in nyc, or
trashing and burning cars after some sports event, or carrying out murders
and rapes and tortures - anywhere.
<p>charmi
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