Kudzu

In Kudzu, when it detects new hardware, it gives you three
choices (1) to configure new hardware (2) to choose *not*
to configure the new hardware or (3) ask-me-again next time.

Now my annoyance is that if you don't press anything and
the time runs out, it takes #2 as the default. This can
be quite a problem if an emergency calls you out of the
room for a few moments when you just installed new
hardware. It would be much beter if the default is #3.
Why isn't it that way?

And what can I do if I fall a victim to this annoyance?

     Thanks,
          Adam